Pink Stole the Show at the “VMAs” with a Speech About Her 6 year old Daughter, Willow. She won the Video Vanguard Award, but instead of talking about herself or her work, she went right into a story about how Willow recently called herself, quote, “the ugliest girl I know,” saying she looks like a boy with long hair. That’s obviously a hard thing for a mother to hear . . . so Pink explained to Willow, who was in the audience, and to the world, … ABOUT rock stars like Michael Jackson, David Bowie, Annie Lennox, and Elton John. She told Willow: “We don’t change. We Help other people to change so they can see more kinds of beauty.” It was a very heartfelt moment.